Campus violence is also called campus bullying. It is different from ordinary fights between students. It is a bullying behavior among students. This behavior is long-term, targeted, and group-based. Most of it occurs on campus or campus. Around campus. The shadow of being bullied as a student may last from adolescence to middle age, and even affect them throughout their lives, bringing very bad consequences to the victims and society. Their personalities are more prone to anxiety than ordinary people, and they have low self-esteem and sensitiveness. What’s more, they may engage in self-mutilation, suicide, and other behaviors in their future growth, which creates unsettling factors for society.

Report To Teachers, Schools And Parents.

Although everyone thinks that reporting to teachers and schools is useless (although I think so too), this procedure must still be followed because the school has an unshirkable responsibility for what happens on campus. If anything goes wrong, the school will be the party that must be held accountable. Therefore, this procedure is necessary and cannot be omitted.

However, we cannot pin all our hopes on teachers and schools. After all, many schools and teachers are also worried that they cannot manage their students well.

Also, be sure to tell your parents.

If you ask who in the world treats you unconditionally, it must be your parents. I believe that knowing that their children are being bullied will make parents feel more pain than being bullied themselves. Moreover, with decades of life experience, your parents are much more mature and have many more methods than you in handling things.

Remember that parents are your powerful foreign aid.

Why are some children reluctant to tell their parents after being bullied? This is because there is little communication with children, and children are used to burying things in their hearts. Therefore, strengthening communication and gaining the trust of children is the key.

Make More Friends And Cultivate Your Own Circle.

The targets of bullying are often withdrawn and have few friends.

You might as well take part in more activities, such as football, basketball, or even mobile games, etc., and make more friends through these activities. If you have more friends, you will naturally have a circle. There are crossovers between circles, and your network expands.

How big can a campus be? The small one has a few hundred people, and the large one has three or four thousand people. After a few circles are mixed, those active elements can be covered.

You should usually participate in more activities, be cheerful, and brag about your skills together, and you can become familiar with them after playing a few games.

It’s easy to get to know each other in school.

For example, boys like to smoke. If I buy a few packs of cigarettes from Myanmar and Laos on Taobao and distribute them to everyone, I will say that my uncle works in the Golden Triangle and these are the cigarettes smoked by the locals.

For example, the eldest sister and the elders are ambiguous. They bought some miscellaneous cosmetics on Taobao, all in foreign languages, and gave them to everyone, saying that they were brought back by their cousin from a small town in France.

For example, if everyone likes mobile games, they can make an appointment to form a game, hold a competition, and provide some rewards and punishments, so that everyone can have a good time.

Once you get to know each other, you won’t be afraid of being bullied.

One day when someone wants to bully you and a friend sees it, maybe saying “Forget it, this person is my friend” can resolve your crisis.

When I was in junior high school, two groups fought. When they arrived at the venue, they saw that both parties knew each other, so the fight was changed to playing football. Middle school students are very loyal, and most acquaintances won’t do it.

One is not familiar with anyone, and the other is someone who often plays basketball together. Who will the bully bully?

You don’t know anyone, and you’re not familiar with anyone. If you don’t bully you, who will you bully?

Develop A Character That Will Not Be Bullied

Bullying also depends on the target, and they will not bully those who are not easy to deal with.

Do you know how beasts choose their prey? If you run away, it will know that you are prey and will pursue you fiercely. All wild beasts know this truth, and humans should understand it even more. Once you act cowardly, others will naturally think that you are easy to bully and you are the best target for bullying.

Be confident when you speak. Avoiding language, trying to please others, and echoing others are all signs of a lack of confidence. When someone criticizes you, don’t accept it humbly, just criticize them back.

When others threaten you, don’t dodge or show fear. It is impossible to hope to gain sympathy from others through compromise.

But be careful not to be too forceful, except for counterattacks, otherwise you will rebound.

In addition, if you exercise more and become stronger, others will have fewer worries.

If that doesn’t work, buy some special effects makeup and fake plasma from Taobao, and let your distant cousin put on makeup and pretend to be chopped and covered in blood, and set up the scene. He posted on WeChat that he had encountered gangsters and had gangs with several gangsters. With the handsome photo of him slashing the air with a machete on the mountain, his classmates would not dare to give it a try.

If you are too cowardly, withdrawn, and physically weak, and you can’t change it after trying many methods, then you can only resort to the last resort. Post some perverted and cruel pictures to your WeChat Moments, set them so that only classmates can see them, and then add words of yearning. After you have successfully transformed yourself into a bloodthirsty and cold-blooded pervert, bullies will not dare to mess with you. Who would have trouble getting along with an inhumane, cold-blooded pervert?

In short, you should make others think that you are a cruel person and not dare to offend you.

Appropriate Bluff

Show off your backend appropriately, whether it exists or not.

Everyone has a slave side, bullying the weak and being afraid of the strong. If you have backing, others will take care of you.

In junior high school, someone wanted to bully me and make a date with me. I spent several hundred yuan and hired a dozen or so stick sticks to help me stand up. A group of strong men with rough talk came to that station with wooden sticks, ropes, pickaxes, and shovels, and the other party was so frightened that they peed. I boasted that these were my father’s men, and the other party thought my family was a gangster, and they treated me with respect from then on.

For example, if you have a police officer at home, you can occasionally ask him to pick you up after school. When a classmate asked about it, he said that it was an elder in the family who had recently put several people in jail and sentenced them to several years. Then brag about how badly those who were caught were beaten.

For example, if you go to a military training summer camp and take some photos of military uniforms, you can also brag about it, saying that the instructor is from a certain special forces team, he is ruthless, he has killed several murderers with knives, and you have a good relationship with him, and he will beat someone if he is bullied. Call him. If the instructor is in the local area, make an appointment in the name of a meal and ask them to wait for you at the school gate after school. Remember to wear a military uniform or camouflage uniform and sunglasses.

For example, if you accompany your elders to participate in a certain game, you can get a group photo. Then he posted it to his circle of friends and inadvertently said that this is a certain leader, such-and-such boss, such-and-such eldest brother, how awesome he was, how cruel he was, etc.

For example, during parent-teacher conferences, you can ask people who are policemen, officials, or bosses in your family to attend. If you have a good car, you can drive there. Never drive a broken car, and you would rather take Didi. It doesn’t matter, just find an elder who looks a bit more ferocious, buy a string of high-imitation thick gold necklaces from Taobao, wear them, and call him the eldest brother of the mixed society.

For example, find some people to take a group photo with, and post it to your circle of friends, telling them that these guys who are dressed in brutal bodies and have murderous faces fight ferociously, and they emphasize loyalty, etc.

In short, it is to establish an image of “I have a backing, and my methods are tough, and I will retaliate.”

Don’t be afraid to brag, most bullies are middle school students, and people in this age group are not that discerning.

The campus is pure, a sacred and beautiful place. The campus should be the sunniest and safest place. The frequent occurrence of school violence not only harms the physical and mental health of minors but also impacts the bottom line of social morality. I hope that the whole society can pay attention to the phenomenon of campus bullying and provide a peaceful and beautiful campus environment for minors. I hope everyone’s memories of their student days are good ones, not bad ones.